Everything feels like a fight. It doesn’t have to stay that way.

I’m Stacey. I’m a conscious parenting expert specializing in neurodivergence, and I help parents figure out what’s actually happening beneath their child’s behaviour—and what to try next.

Stacey Yates Sellar in glasses and a black turtleneck, smiling

Dr. Shefali Tsabary

Trained under, and receives direct client referrals from her

Bestselling author

Conscious Parenting Your ADHD Child

Double certified

Conscious Parenting and Applied Positive Psychology Coach

10+ years

Leading live support groups for neurodivergent families

Stacey Yates Sellar in a navy dress, smiling, seated in a warm wood-panelled room

Meet your coach

Hi, I’m Stacey.

Parenting coach, researcher, bestselling author, and mom of two teen boys: one AuDHD, one “neurotypical.”

I trained under Dr. Shefali Tsabary, and then life at home showed me where the usual advice runs out. Everything I teach comes from that gap, the space between what the parenting books promise and what actually works with a neurodivergent child.

Ways to work together

Support that meets you where you are.

Group coaching

The ND Parenting Lab

Live coaching calls every week and a community of parents who truly get it. Bring the real situation, the homework standoff or the email from school, and work through it together.

Private coaching

Beyond The Behavior: The First 10

Ten hours of focused 1:1 work to understand what is really driving your child’s behavior and put the right support in place around them.

What parents in the Lab say

“Stacey’s groups are a lifeline! … Each session lights our path and makes my day.”
Jen
“I feel seen, heard and part of a community that understands what I am dealing with.”
Risheeta
“From the very first session I have felt safe, heard and supported.”
Jodi
“The calls have taught me that it’s OK to leave the checkboxes unchecked.”
Mercy
“Even just listening in has helped me feel less alone on this journey.”
Leontien
“I always finish a little lighter and more connected.”
Jenifer
“A breath of fresh air on how to parent a neurodiverse child.”
Kresta
“She truly understands.”
Maude
“Stacey’s groups are a lifeline! … Each session lights our path and makes my day.”
Jen
“I feel seen, heard and part of a community that understands what I am dealing with.”
Risheeta
“From the very first session I have felt safe, heard and supported.”
Jodi
“The calls have taught me that it’s OK to leave the checkboxes unchecked.”
Mercy
“Even just listening in has helped me feel less alone on this journey.”
Leontien
“I always finish a little lighter and more connected.”
Jenifer
“A breath of fresh air on how to parent a neurodiverse child.”
Kresta
“She truly understands.”
Maude

The bestselling book

Conscious Parenting Your ADHD Child

A practical guide to understanding what sets your child off and turning everyday conflict into connection, so your child can grow into a happy, confident human.

The newsletter

Weekly letters for parents of neurodivergent kids.

A DIFFERENT WAY TO PARENT

Less fighting. More understanding.

Identify

What’s actually keeping you stuck?

Interrupt

One small change in the moment.

Integrate

A personalized experiment to try at home.

Bring me your hardest moment. We’ll start there.

Book Your Free Discovery Hour

Conscious parenting · Neurodivergence specialist

Everything feels like a fight. It doesn't have to stay that way.

I'm Stacey. I help parents understand what's driving their child's behaviour, interrupt the same exhausting battles, and find practical ways forward that work for their child.

Book Your Free Discovery Call ↗Free, 45 minutes, one-to-one, online. Leave with one experiment to try.
Stacey Yates Sellar smiling in a navy outfit

Bestselling author

Conscious Parenting Your
ADHD Child

Trained by

Dr. Shefali Tsabary

10+ years

Running live support
groups for ND families

Double certified

Conscious Parenting &
Applied Positive
Psychology

Sound familiar?

Why is everything so hard?

The mornings. The homework. The screens. The perfectly reasonable request that somehow turns into a 45-minute argument.

You've tried rewards, consequences, being patient, being consistent. And someone always has another suggestion.

“Have you tried being stricter?”

Yes, Karen. Thank you. We hadn't thought of that.

What works beautifully for one child can make things considerably worse for another. We need to understand your child.

A DIFFERENT WAY TO PARENT

Less fighting. More understanding.

When we stop treating every hard moment as something to correct, we can get curious about what's driving it. That's where different possibilities begin.

01

Identify

What’s actually keeping you stuck?

02

Interrupt

One small change in the moment.

03

Integrate

A personalized experiment to try at home.

Hi, I'm Stacey

I know the science. I also know what it's like when none of it seems to help at 7:30 in the morning.

I'm a conscious parenting coach, positive psychology practitioner, bestselling author and mom of two teenage boys, one of whom is AuDHD.

I help parents see what they might be missing, question the advice that isn't working, and find something useful to try next. Preferably with a little humour. Some of this is genuinely ridiculous.

Get to know me →
Stacey Yates Sellar wearing black glasses and a black turtleneck
Expertise, lived experience, and very little patience for one-size-fits-all advice.

What parents in the Lab say

In their words.

“Stacey’s groups are a lifeline! … Each session lights our path and makes my day.”
Jen
“I feel seen, heard and part of a community that understands what I am dealing with.”
Risheeta
“From the very first session I have felt safe, heard and supported.”
Jodi
“The calls have taught me that it’s OK to leave the checkboxes unchecked.”
Mercy
“Even just listening in has helped me feel less alone on this journey.”
Leontien
“I always finish a little lighter and more connected.”
Jenifer
“A breath of fresh air on how to parent a neurodiverse child.”
Kresta
“She truly understands.”
Maude
Two ways to work together

Support that fits your family.

Ongoing coaching and community, or focused one-to-one help when things feel especially hard.

Community & weekly coaching

The ND Parenting Lab

$49 / month

Three live 90-minute coaching calls a week. Bring your real struggles, learn from other parents, and find personalized experiments to try at home. Nobody will tell you to be stricter.

Explore the Lab ↗
Private intensive

Beyond the Behavior

10 hours of 1:1 coaching

For families who need more concentrated support. We'll work through recurring conflicts, school distress, emotional overwhelm and the patterns keeping everyone stuck.

Explore Private Coaching ↗

Your next step

Bring me your hardest moment. We'll start there.

A free 45-minute call. One repeating struggle. A practical experiment designed around your family.

Book Your Free Discovery Call ↗